Almost 4 years ago Wicked Bitch, White Mulan and Caroua had started a "Sex and the City" style brunching at a lovely cafe ran by a lovely woman whom they named Lady Jo, the cafe was closed a few months later and the bitches had not seen Lady Jo since.
A week ago White Mulan bumped into Lady Jo, she is now working in a new cafe less than 100m away from the old one, interestingly the reunion happened about time that the Sex and the City movie is to be released. It seems like the time to reflect and spring clean....
It was about 2 years ago that Wicked Bitch experienced her "Mariah Carey Glitter breakdown". One of the driving factor was a breakup: with a man who was living with his ex, at the time she decided she will not be committing to this man until he move out from that apartment. She finally granted her wish months later and this liberation was fantastic, because she thought there might be a future, even he was fat and ugly, but the chemistry was great, until one day she discovered that he was double booking and he decided to go with the other bitch. His lame explanation was that he offered a serious relationship to Wicked, while he was still living with the ex, and she rejected him, so he took it as the furthest their relationship could go and started seeing other people. Wicked done the best possible thing and left him then and there... A failed relationship, a struggling career and a less-than-supportive family, wicked had turned wacko, she refused to see anyone and behaved very oddly for a period of 3 months, after a while, she got a new job, new set of fuck-buddies, and a new vibrator, her life was anchored back on track.
Wicked was a stubborn bitch, and she still is, at the time of the relationship, she refused to go to that man's home until he sorted things out with his ex, because in her opinion relationship is not a relay, for a man to honour his woman, or ex, or the one that he is dating, he need to respect everyone, no matter how far this relationship goes. In a situation that involved living with someone whom you once had a intimate relationship with, assuming the live-in boyfriend situation defined intimacy, a man has to be a man to the ex, and the potential future partner, a cooling period must be granted, the dick is not a rental property, there will not be a real estate agent ensuring a new tenant will be using the building right after the old tenant has left.
As a woman Wicked never like to judge, because she had been judged enough already, Wicked usually prefers to shut the fuck up at critical time, but when the time is right, and an opinion is needed, Wicked will just not be shutting the fuck up.
Looking back at those days, and comparing to the men Wicked met in the past years, it is save to say that not all men are lame pieces of shits, but when shit happens, shit happens, we can only avoid to become lame. Wicked was pretty silly to limit her friend's help, although the truth is, Wicked refuse to let anyone to see her when she is down, even for the days she only have 2 hours sleep she will put enough potion on her face to make sure she will not look crappy, any relationship or friendship needs investment, pushing her friends away back then, was a silly idea.
