June 2011
Yes, over the past months Bellinda moved to UK, with Cinidifella moved to France, Slow White extremely occupied by her newborn; and more importantly without making much effort with each other... Hard to admit but it is true that the dynamic between these 3 is now dissolved. Maybe an occasional SMS here or there, disappointment from unanswered email. It is true that its hard to keep a friendship overseas, and nothing last forever, but can bitches just let a friendship dissolve like this?
As the bigger group continute to grow, opinion started to fly and smaller sub group starting to form - why? Because sometimes, as one introduce someone new to a group of friends, it is hard to expect trust to be developed on spot and without individual bitch spending time alone with the new friend.
One time someone got introduced to a group, when she was being asked what she does for living, she said, "I work in fashion", which can be somewhere between a high-end fashion director to a temp in a department store, turned out she was close to the later. And how, may I ask, how can someone make friend with someone so shallow the moment we met? If someone already trying to project certain delusion at such early stage, can there still be a healthy friendship? And if shallow-ness got injected into the group, can it damage the group?
Caurora admit the new dynamic of sub-group made her feel like turning away; and yet her dynamic with Mulan is honestly disappointed, given they didn't speak much even now she left the country.
Yes, priorities in life changes, but if the dynamic between friends changed, what can be done?
If one day SATC movies ditch all the expensive pricey shit or stop trying to be 20 years younger; and go back to what made the show brilliant - relateble genuine-ness. I'd watch it again.
What's the difference living life out of others, than trying to keep up with other people's idealism.
