With all the bad experience in the past we learnt how to deal with bad man or recover from bad relationships. As we learn more about negative situations we establish our standards; as we get older and improve in time, we raise our bar higher and we don't even know if there may be anyone who can reach our standards. For a lot of us, we're just waiting until we're too old for the sex À la carte menu; or make it too early too soon and started wondering what else is out there later in our lives.
The faith in ourselves, the faith in believing in ourselves had been keeping us alive, and when we're down, we have our friends and careers to distract us.
Love first, seducing later had became the hardest thing to do, because if you try that, the man may think its a game. May be we all playing games at the moment, some play it more seriously, some don't.
We all born into the world with optimism and happiness and love, depending on the type of guidance or personal experience, every one of us go into our own directions, if you were born and raised in a metropolitan city where people are used to the shields and amours, you'd found it easier to learn to be with yourself and never believe in fairy tales. Cupid was never part of your believe system.
If someone managed to make the cut; when you're down he distract you nicely; willing to love you and seduce you. And the first question you ask is "What the fuck?" - is it because you can't stomach something good or is it your intuition warning you of an illusion?
Once down with love and done with love, how can you digest the fact that it may be a "Real"ationship and transform back to the child you were - optimistic and believe in cupid? can there be a "Transforming back"? Were there something to "Transform back" to?
It is a matter to the heart, but when your heart (and your head) is confused, what can you do?
