A very good friend of mine had got into a relationship (I think i'd mention about him before), i am so happy for him because this guy is the best guy i know about since i met him. and now I call them The CONJOINTED Twins
The lovebirds are in their early 20s and they just can't keep themselves off each other. I love them. They were set up by YD who possibly have a match-making fetish, I have a feeling that the Cojointed wants to set me up with someone. I remember in 1 occasion they ask me if i ever felt lonely, and lately they asked me about what kind of guys i am into, and i gave them a pretty brief idea but deep in, I am not sure if i was equipped for a relationship.
Of course I feel lonely some time, but as I'm approaching my mid-20s, I learnt to deal with loneliness. When you're a kid feeling alone make you cry, for me now, from time to time, I actually enjoy spending time with myself. Also, other aspects in your life got intensified once you reach mid-20s and your view of relationship changes, the way your compatible list looks will certainly be different.
Relationship is not like a job application that you can send a resume and make it work, and it certainly hurts more because there's no such things as 2-weeks-notice. A person's mentality is still pretty much teenage in the early 20s, and infatuation is pretty unavoidable. A slight maturity of mid-20s would keep you away from stepping on the bad spots on the milefield, the only problem is that your sex drive is still pretty much the same as the teenage era, maybe it wasn't too bad of an idea to get into a serious relationship before mid-20s.... whoops too late.
Solution: have sex and casual date as much as you want, invest your heart only when you're definitely sure.
