Yes we are still caring about Sex and the City, with Carrie and Big finally gotten married, it sparked an interesting argue point from Wicked's workmate: Why did Carrie give Big another chance after receving a series of emails copied from a book? Why didn't he knock on her door? It all seemed too simple for 10 years of pain inluding the humanilation at the altar?
Let's pretend Carrie is a real life person, given Wicked's workmate is in her 20s and Carrie is in her 40s. One obvious question would be: did Carrie become desperate and she would jump into anything that is available? Was she not confident to find another love in her 40s?
Or,
Maybe Wicked's workmate, who is a strong and attractive woman in her 20s, is yet to experience a core shaking love that can hurts so bad but can still love? Is one represents Meant to be and the other one represents the young attitudes?
How "Meant to be" stands for is purly based on how the phrase is applied? "Meant to be" can be a praise to something that is so magical and we all go speechless when trying to explain; "Meant to be" can also be a cover-up of something that is so dreadful and totally hopeless.
In the world of science and theories, we all generate our own rules to survive our own way, is "Meant to be" a temporary visa we granted another person to access our world after discovering a strong compatibilty? As our world evolves the way that personal space (physical or mental) become so strong and defensive, even individualised DVD players were installed in cars. When communication is no longer mendatory, had we, bitches in our 20s, overly confined inside our existing idealism? Or for a woman like Carrie, whom mixed idealism and experiences, got it right?
We must note that most of us construct out idealism from what we had absorded from the world wide media, and it seems like after generations and generations of struggling, we finally constructed an ideal theory for ourselves; We were bought up by stories that taught us the lessons without learning it first handed, seems like we "Meant to Be" had depreciated to a temporary visa for someone to access our world in renewal bases. Any chances for our very own core shaking love experience?
When life is easier these days than 20 years ago, young bitches built a thicker personal space and becoming more solid with our thoughts. With obtaining information becoming too easy, did we learnt about romance without experiencing it? Had us bitches forgotten about the journey is more important than result? Maybe one day we can simply pay someone to experience life on behalf of us.
With all these questions lining up, perhaps we are still trying to construct an ideal theory for ourselves.
