the job. In a miracle case, Wicked once had a referee turned his back on her but a number of positive referees counteracted and she got the job, she later managed to prove herself during the years she was holding the position.Looking from a lighter point of view, if you surf video sharing websites like youtube you can see plenty of user generated videos received more positive comments than bad ones, although users can filter bad comments, but one undeniable situation is good comments are usually brief and bad comment always begin with "Fuck you!" and followed by explaining why they wanted to "Fuck" at the first place.
White Mulan, RoAriel and Wicked Bitch discussed a bit about the situation: Given people worry about bad comments, why do we make time to make bad comments and not as much when we give compliments?
Mulan thinks the situation was a self-justification counteracting self-doubt: what a person do not like about him/herself become a driven force to make bad comments of the specific matter, making bad comment worked as in double negative which perhaps make those people feeling better. Most people made their comments on youtube without any professional knowledges, to prevent imposing doubt about such comment they explain and justify.
RoAriel thinks everyone has a compliment side and also a complain side. People feel good about taking time to give compliments, when they know its nice, they can give it out anytime anywhere and people accept them happily; in contrast, because people know complains are not as likable, so they take the time and make it loud and clear about what they don't like, in an extend, to be nice when they're being bad.With the fragile nature of human mind, can one really survive the complaints from within? In the world of diplomacy, people make compliments for sake of being nice, does it worth it?
But if we no longer rely on compliments or complaints, from oneself or the others, can a bitch in her 20s manage to further develop herself?
That's why we need filters.
