Prince Caffeine once asked Wicked if she was offered a trip to Paris on a private jet, will she accept it? She said no. It is because she want what she wanted and make what she wanted, not the overrated Parisian fantasy - she wants to be able to afford the trip and no matter where it is, that is a prove for being able to do it on her own. At this moment she is much attracted to the haunting beauty of Eastern Europe, of course she can only afford an economy seat next to the toilet, but she think that is better than being offered.
Doing the right thing for the wrong reason and vice versa are debatable. A man who enjoys offering or a woman who enjoy her independence, everyone says there is no right or wrong; but in relation to other persons of interest (including the bank). How do we deal with difference without the guidelines of what is "Right" and "Wrong"? When it comes to method, what works for some people do not always work for the others. How do we know or sustain what we believe when your right/wrong value is different from the others? Biologically a man was built to offer (in most cases at least), but in this commercialised world where the offering one is passive - if you don't like your meals you can send it back to the kitchen; if you don't like the goods you can return it; if you changed your mind you can cancel the purchase - The receiving side is the one who take lead these days, which is why for bitches like Wicked, the prove of being able to offer and receive is a pride of her own.
Being in 20s is when a bitch start calling her own shot in life, sometime it is tough to work within complicated situation, but it really is time to call your shot instead of the family or a lecturer telling you what to do, it is coming to age by learning about one-self. If you can make things happen on your own, taking a chance that means to you, no matter what people says, as long as it means to you, that shall be something special.
As the FTB theory, someone who tries already worth 7/10, sometime appreciating what is offered is a great thing, its not like you have to say yes to everything - but don't forget to say thank you. Perhaps when you look into their offer (or suggestion), you may find elements that you can improve your method(s) and achieve a better result.
It is good to be offered, it is good to see men making an effort, but sometime, bitches just have to take charge.
