RoAirel's man remains invisible from the bitches, unable to make his long waited appearence at Mulan's bingo night was disappointing. As friends it was good to stay open minded, but skipping another meeting opportunity just can not shake the suspection that he may not think the bitches are relvant.
Wicked's guy is not doing bad at the moment, Wicked is taking her time introducing this introverted young man to the bitches 1 by 1, so far he is doing well. It was not easy for him to meet people who are strangers to him but family to Wicked. After meeting Mulan, Wicked is confident about him getting along with the bitches. She is trained and experienced in socialising, which is also a skill that she sharpened by developing her career, on top of that people's judgement never really bothers her, she is not troubled when meeting his friends. But for a guy outside her friend's age group, exploring an unfamiliar teritory and his eager to please certainly created some stress for himself.
Similar case for Aladdin and John-asmine: Their friends love and support them because they deserve each other - they are good people who are good for one another, and that is all they needed. Small difference is when it moved to a family level, John-asmine's mom is full of expectations, given these expectiations were built over the decades of witnessing what her daughter learnt and mistake she made. These expectations might have blinded her from seeing what the bitches can see.
The bitches are as close as a family. For a new person being introduced, it is reasonable for this person to think there may be a strong expectation from what a mother or sister would be having. Although history counts, but personality and showing whoever you are is more important.
As Aladdin learns, no matter how big John-asmine's family is, their relationship can just be the family of 2.
As Wicked's man learns, he is special because she think he is, and she don't care what other people thinks, but knowing Caurora and Mulan like him, is a great bonus.
As Wicked herself learns, through her man's struggle and stress, she understand what RoAriel's man is going thru handling a big group of strangers and bad record in the past and expectations. He may not been avoiding the bitches, perhaps he is finding a point of entry.
