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There is 1 little flaw with the FTB version of "Happy Ending" tho - preserving that special moment is great, but unable to share it with your friends can be problematic, they are the people who hold your head when you vomit, encourage you to make the move to your potential love interest and listen to you when you're down. Now that you found someone, if you can't share your happy ending with all these people who helped you in the past - you are just a shitty friend.
But seriously, you don't need to acknowledge the friendship by asking them to be your bridesmaid, its a turn off when they sees you as the bridezilla.
Year after year, things become different, and without deeper check up from time to time, how can we make sure that we didn't simply forgotten those friends who helped us along the way? Can severe negligent make you a shitty friend?
When your friends know, after you found "Happy ending" you're still the person who cherish their friendship and love you for who you are. That's when you truly shared your "Happy Ending" with your friends.
As world expands, each bitch developed into the directions that do not necessary including each other. But making things go the way that makes your friends happy is important. And along the way, you may be able to discover, when you make room for the new, there still space available for the old.
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Maybe all you need is to find a way to be happy, with your love and your friends, ignore the overrated "natural course of life" that society had been imposing on you, or a life schedule that stress you to get married. Ignore the lavish wedding with suffering friends and credit cards. Make something happen for the sake that you want to, because it makes you happy, makes you happy for who you are, not because someone tells you to - this "someone" can easily be yourself. Think and communicate to yourself what you really want in your life, and go to the direction that you pleased. Your don't always get what you wanted, but if you try and make things happen, and if it happen for that reason, you may as well can have this satisfying moment which can possibly equals "happy ending".
When it comes to love and life, as you look at what is in front of you, you ask yourself "Is it what I wanted?"
Perhaps life isn't like the sex and the city - full of drama
Perhaps life isn't like what you read and saw and heard and listened. Life is just a simple life that is for you to live. Life have small dramas, some have resolutions, some don't.
Perhaps how much the bitches tries to differentiate themselves from people around us or cliches of the world, you'd found someone who lived a similar story.
The world is boring, and the world is full of surprises at the same time.
No matter what it is, no matter how you view it, single or coupled, its most important to know you are loved and love in return, we are just living in our own version of cliches - but as long as you are happy, and ready for more, life can be an open end - ready for you to explore another chapter, something old, something new, you don't need an ending, you just need to be happy.
