Cindi-fella broke up with this man who never deserves her, its was hard at the beginning because she always deny how much she loved the man and pretend to be easy-come-easy-go like the new age textbook said, but she feel the pain, but she is good to move on.
She successfully found closure, he told her in her face that is not going to happen - he has every right to do it - he did not let the guilt of her moving country to affect him so they won't end up grow to hate each other, but it is a fact that Cindi is out in the cold, away from her friends and her home. All by herself.
It was the old textbook theories that tells people to start dating during your mid-teen, get married in mid-twenties, have a kid, move to (or stay in) the suburbs, and spending the rest of your life completing a mortgage; where as with the new theories in the recent decades, people start to stay single until they are in their 30s or 40s, much more established and know about what is happening to the world, and have their own sense of security, and during the meantime, they believe in easy-come-easy-go relationships.
Come to think about it - how different are the old and the new textbook theories - when it comes to theories, when it comes to the norm of the society, it is always the followers and anti-goers. But underneath it all, how different can it be?
Last week on the news a 107 years old woman is looking for her 23th husband, she might have broken the age/romance rules, but just like a lots of women, she just don't want to be alone, and we don't need a textbook to tell that is still a norm.
For our bitch Cindi-fella, who have an easy-come-easy-go surface, but how can it not hurt when the person that you willing to move country for, tells you he don't want you?
Theories or norm, in most cases, we are all the same type of bitches underneath it all. Cindi decided to call her friend whom most likely to stay single for the rest of her life, so she would feel better about being single, and she was then told by her friend she is now in a relationship.
If a 107 years old woman is looking for a 23th husband, what can not happen?
