O'Mighty Self defence + destruction.
Remember when you were in Highschool, you ask someone out and from that point on you loosly termed each other"boyfriend" or "girlfriend", you feel like there is a 70% match and everything's lovely. Until One day, you or the other person had met someone else whom gives a whooping 71% and you will delete/being deleted without any warning? That's the beginning of marriages by convinence: 10 years later, you wake up one day feeling like you should pick a life partner, subconsciously and tragically, your requirements are entered into the brain and for the next few weeks, surrounding people will be scanned, one of those whom received a higher percentage of match will be the one you married in a months time. [or in some cases, a lifepartner to fight for gay marriage together.]
Lots of people are going for convience these days, regardless of sexuality. Although today's society is attempting to enbrace self auditing and truth, not many people are willing to take a look at their flaws without any clever disguises. For me, in order to find a real prince charming, I am self-locked into stories like a fairy tale princess in the castle, only problem is, I am the witch as well: After one disappointment after the other, after relationships fallen by defaults, to prevent any more heartbreaks, I layered myself behind towers and walls.
What if the castle had gotten too heavy and not just I was trapped, but no one can hear me from the outside? These days we need to know how to protect ourselves, but how can you tell when your self defence system is working against you?
In the fast pace economic driven society we'd been educated to believe the beauty of convinence and cost reduction. But can we settle our intimate relationship like fast foods? We all know that most marriage by convience will ended sadly in divorces,councuelings, or affairs, and it is equally sad to be trapped by myself and never manage to believe. Is there any ways one can equalise and juggle between self defence and figuring out if someone is a fast food case or a fine crusine? Remember, when you meet someone, you better make your decision fast, because someone else with a 71% can snatch your man away.........
