i always like my trainer, an introvert and a farm boy in the city, our rather strange dynamic made us getting along well, I do admit that I want a hot body but I cheat when I workout, lately I decided to make some changes, to try to be as serious as possible. I know he's not the best or the most experienced trainer in the world, but I quite like what we got.
Today we finished another training, in a way he was a bit rough on my stretches; on the other hand i'm a bit concern because i'm never flexible. As soon as he left I was approached by another trainer, a well spoken and experienced trainer, I know, because i reconise her on TV, she'd been around for years, althought I didn't give her my contact details but during the shower I was actually thinking about switching. Then I realise the vast similarity between this situation as in a relationship: When you get along with your existing relationship well, you can eventually turn blindeyed and basically absord anything that has been taken in, (taking for granted) its only a matter of time someone fancier appears in your face and your blindeyes were switched to this fancier material, and thus, spend less time at the existing relationship, and worse, only highlighting the flaws (which you once ignore) in order to rationalise yourself from self-guilt.
Perhaps it is time for me to reflect on myself, perhaps to learn how good what I have already is so I won't hurt anyone; at the same time to let this person know there's room for improvement. Please don't forget that if you can do this, your intimate other may not be doing it, that's why threapists are rich.
In terms of my trainer, i'm going to let him know about this incident, just to reestablish the fact that is: my goal, my choice, my body. I'll give him a couple of months to prove that we should still workout together, or the cut is ready! Hey, we're talking about business here, in business you don't linger; In relationship, you do: You may give your ex a booty call but you don't book your trainer a booty training! (well.....)
A book says, "successful people understands 99% is the actual halfway, giving up (in any stage) is such a waste." ; another reading I found one says, "don't spend your precious time on something you can not be sure."
