Most men are freaks, when dating them we discover that we are freaks too; and if you are the freaky fairy tell bitches, it's even harder to find another freak to build your little circuit with. When the disproportion between remotely reasonable men and bad dates is severe, the population on the Island of Lost Men is reaching its record high.
Last season Wicked mentioned an ex (the computer genius), whom she didn't sent to the Island for, perhaps their distance allowed them to heal. One thing that Wicked found very flattering is that he apologised to her at the right time: Wicked had almost finished her healing process and he apologised and seal the wound. Lucky it's all good now, it took a long way and someone made his way back from the Island of lost men.
Sometime men do apologize too soon or too late that makes us crazy, but everyone of us are different so there is no standard for a man to submit his apology, although it sounds like a game of Russian Roulette but the courage to play it at the first place should be honoured. If the relationship shall work, it would've worked, but since it didn't, they end things the right way, sounds logical enough, but some men just can't manage.
Technology enhances so we don't necessary grows old, but we still hope to get wiser day by day. If not at least we can borrow some wisdom to avoid mistakes that we made or bad men that we dated, if we don't get smarter, we might've just sent ourselves to the Island of Lost Bitches....